I am aware that my girlfriend is a witch. At first, it startled me, but as I got to know her more, I realized that her craft was a significant part of her identity. **Accepting her for who she is** became crucial in our relationship. Before meeting her, I had preconceived notions about witches and their practices. I thought of cauldrons, broomsticks, and spells gone amiss. However, my girlfriend quickly shattered those stereotypes with her modern witchcraft lifestyle.
Today started at 3am for the travel group everyone woke up, packed, and hopped on the travel bus. Thanks to Dalton & Skye for driving us to the airport. Once we checked luggage and made it through TSA we boarded our flight to Charlotte, NC. Once we arrived in Charlotte we headed to our terminal and got lunch at a burger joint in the airport. After the group ate a delicious lunch, we boarded our last flight to Orlando , FL. Once the plane touched down, we all disembarked and headed to baggage claim where we collected all the groups luggage. We then found our shuttle to the universal resort and rode that over to the resort. Once the whole group was checked in, we ate dinner at a grab n’ go restaurant in the resort. Everyone ate quickly and headed up to bed, to rest up for an adventurous day tomorrow!
Also, I really think after traveling the United States these last nine years with Menopause I really have grown to appreciate who I am because of where I grew up. Cavanagh has also had a busy voiceover career, most notably as the voice of Judy Neutron in the Oscar-nominated animated film Jimmy Neutron Boy Genius, the subsequent television series and several TV movies.
However, my girlfriend quickly shattered those stereotypes with her modern witchcraft lifestyle. **She taught me that being a witch is not about casting malicious spells or causing harm to others.** In fact, her craft is centered on **healing, introspection, and connecting with nature**.
'League's' memorable Marla continues to affect viewers
Welcome to Questions of Characters, the column that puts a name to some of the most familiar faces in movies and on television, the stage and commercials who either hail from Chicago or have spent enough time here to consider it home.
Name: Megan Cavanagh
AdvertisementChicago connection: Born in Chicago in 1960 to parents Jim and Rita on Nov. 8. Raised in River Forest along with her four siblings, Cavanagh went to Oak Park and River Forest High School, graduating at 16 in 1977. She attended Rosary College in River Forest (now Dominican University), graduating in January 1982.
Career overview: She got the acting bug at 4: "We were singing 'Puff the Magic Dragon' at a pre-kindergarten performance. I was Puff in a big dragon costume, and my job was to skip back and forth, and I could see through my big dragon mouth — especially the sixth-graders — looking terrified. I had so much power in that moment I knew this was what I wanted to do the rest of my life." She appeared in a memorable high school production of "Oklahoma" with classmates Dan Castellaneta, Mary Elizabeth Mastrantonio and Kathy Griffin. After graduation Cavanagh worked at several fondly remembered Chicago theaters, including the Body Politic, Victory Gardens and Absolute Theatre, doing anything and everything (house-managing, working the box office, understudying) and performing as much as possible. She joined the comedy troupe New Age Vaudeville in 1984 and performed with them until 1987. In 1988 she moved to Los Angeles and found work in commercials.
AdvertisementCavanagh's big break came in 1990, when director Penny Marshall cast her in the comedy "A League of Their Own." She made an instant impression with her portrayal of Marla Hooch, the so-called "ugly girl" who outshines several members of the all-female baseball team. She had numerous supporting parts in film comedies following that success — "Robin Hood: Men In Tights" and "Dracula: Dead and Loving It" for director Mel Brooks, "For Richer, for Poorer," "Junior," "That Darn Cat" and others. Cavanagh has also had a busy voiceover career, most notably as the voice of Judy Neutron in the Oscar-nominated animated film "Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius," the subsequent television series and several TV movies. On TV, Cavanagh has had roles in everything from "Home Improvement" to "Exes & Ohs." Cavanagh also has a thriving stage career and is currently touring the country in "Menopause: The Musical." She lives in Hollywood with her partner, Anne Chamberlain. Megan's son, Brendan, is 19 and majoring in Mandarin Chinese and international affairs at college.
Q: I'm going to guess that Marla Hooch is the character you are most often recognized for.
A: That is correct. To this day, every day. People say, "You look so much like that girl from that movie" or they just come right up to me and say, "You were Marla Hooch." A lot of them add, "You're so pretty in real life." That's very sweet when they say that. I get a lot of "That movie changed my life" from young women. So many of us don't feel like the pretty one or the popular one. It's brought up beauty issues in society for a lot of people. I am working on a documentary dealing with this issue. I have had entire teams of softball players of young women who watch it. The amount of people who love this movie astounds me. I went to a baseball signing with some of the original players at a tournament, and there was literally a line about a mile long. They are so emotional about it.
Q: Which actor(s) would you nominate for the Character Actor Hall of Fame?
A: I would nominate Margaret Rutherford, who I adore. I love Helen Mirren. I really like Melissa McCarthy. She's genius. I think Sarah Silverman is genius. Some of the young women coming up right now in comedy are so refreshing. Kristen Wiig, Tina Fey, Amy Poehler are all so brilliant.
Q: What's an archetypal character role you have played often?
A; I've played lots of character-y roles, but I play average gals who are looking for love a lot (laughs).
Q: What's a character part that you would like to play?
AdvertisementA: Where do I begin? I've always wanted to do an Irish sister part in "Dancing at Lughnasa." The character-ier the better. I like to play women who are somewhat not liked that make you feel sorry for them.
Q: Most unusual character/costume/location/prop?
A: I had to wear a crocodile outfit when I played the crocodile in "Peter Pan." I helped my mom make it. I had to wear a Santa Claus suit in "Robin Hood: Men in Tights." It was extremely warm. When I went to the audition they told me to stuff clothing in my sleeves. I went out and got a Santa suit from a rental shop and went completely dressed as the character. I put my hair up and I walked in the door to meet Mel (Brooks) as the character, and he hired me on the spot. It is a very dicey thing to do, but it worked out. I would love Mel Brooks to do this as a musical. I would love to do this onstage. Hey Mel, I'm ready!
Q: Has being from Chicago helped in your career?
A: Yes. Chicago is a very well-respected theater town. Having that on my resume has given me a deeper sense of what kind of actor I am. Also, I really think after traveling the United States these last nine years with "Menopause" I really have grown to appreciate who I am because of where I grew up. I'm generalizing here, but to me Chicagoans are a very real, warm-hearted kind of people. There's no B.S., no pretension, you get what you get. I think that's very well respected — especially in the film business.
A: That is correct. To this day, every day. People say, "You look so much like that girl from that movie" or they just come right up to me and say, "You were Marla Hooch." A lot of them add, "You're so pretty in real life." That's very sweet when they say that. I get a lot of "That movie changed my life" from young women. So many of us don't feel like the pretty one or the popular one. It's brought up beauty issues in society for a lot of people. I am working on a documentary dealing with this issue. I have had entire teams of softball players of young women who watch it. The amount of people who love this movie astounds me. I went to a baseball signing with some of the original players at a tournament, and there was literally a line about a mile long. They are so emotional about it.
She carefully collects herbs and uses crystals to channel positive energy. Her rituals involve meditation, tarot card readings, and invoking the power of the elements. Witnessing her practices made me appreciate the **beauty and spirituality** behind her witchcraft. Being in a relationship with a witch has its quirks. **I have become accustomed to seeing candles flicker on her altar and the scent of sage lingering in our home.** Sometimes, she involves me in her rituals, and I willingly participate to deepen our bond. These moments of shared spirituality have brought us closer together. However, dating a witch also comes with challenges. There are times when she experiments with spells, and their outcomes can be unpredictable. I have seen her potions bubble over, and her incantations yield unexpected results. Yet, she has shown me that **witchcraft is a path of learning and growth, one that requires resilience and respect for the supernatural forces** at play. Navigating misunderstandings and societal perceptions is another hurdle. Not everyone understands or accepts her craft, sometimes labeling it as mere superstition or even devil worship. However, I have come to see that **witchcraft is a valid spiritual practice**, deeply rooted in ancient traditions and beliefs. I am proud to stand by her side as she embraces her witch identity. Our relationship has taught me so much about embracing differences and challenging societal norms. **At the core, my girlfriend's witchcraft is about self-empowerment**, mindfulness, and doing good in the world. It has shown me the importance of looking beyond surface-level judgments and recognizing the value in each other's unique journeys. In conclusion, while initially apprehensive, I am now grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow alongside my witch girlfriend. Her craft has opened my eyes to a world of spirituality, healing, and mysticism. **Accepting her as a witch has allowed us to nurture a love that transcends societal expectations**, creating a strong and magical bond between us..
Reviews for "Unleashing the Magic in My Relationship"
1. Justin - 2 stars -
"I am aware that my girlfriend is a witch" was not what I expected at all. The storyline was confusing and lacked depth. The characters were poorly developed, and I found it difficult to connect with any of them. The dialogue was forced and awkward, making it hard to follow the plot. Overall, I was disappointed with this book and would not recommend it to others who are looking for a captivating and well-written story.
2. Emily - 1 star -
I am sorry, but "I am aware that my girlfriend is a witch" was a complete waste of time. The writing style was juvenile and lacked any creativity. The plot was predictable and lacked any real substance. The characters were one-dimensional, and their actions and motivations were not believable. It felt like the author rushed through the book without putting in any effort. Save yourself the trouble and skip this one.
3. Benjamin - 2 stars -
"I am aware that my girlfriend is a witch" didn't live up to the hype for me. The concept seemed interesting, but the execution fell short. The pacing was off, and the story dragged in some parts while rushing through important plot points in others. The dialogue was stilted and unnatural, making it hard for me to stay engaged. Additionally, the romantic relationship between the main characters felt forced and lacked chemistry. Overall, I was underwhelmed by this book and wouldn't recommend it to others.
4. Samantha - 2 stars -
"I am aware that my girlfriend is a witch" had potential, but it failed to deliver. The writing style was unimpressive and lacked descriptive language. The world-building seemed half-hearted, and the magical elements felt forced into the story without any real purpose. The characters were flat and lacked development, making it impossible for me to care about what happened to them. Overall, this book left me feeling unsatisfied and disappointed. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone looking for a well-crafted and engaging story.